Now, I know some people hate top lists, the fact that they are an element of competition doesn't sit well with people.
I can get that, and I feel the same way. But, (and there is always a but) when you suddenly, out of the blue find out that you are on one, it's a good feeling.
My position on the Best Sex Toy Blog List is immaterial to me. The fact I made it onto this list means my site has been noticed and that's something that validates my work. For anyone who suffers from "imposter syndrome", that's a huge pat on the back.
Some of my biggest heroes and heroines are on that list, and I am on it with them. It gives me a warm glowy feeling to be listed among some of my favourite blogs such as Big Gay Review, Emmeline Peaches, Kinky Kitten Kim, Backwoods Bedroom and Phallophile Reviews among so many others.
Thank you to the team at SexualAlpha for the hard work that has gone into their top lists. Unlike lots of other lists that are annual lists, their lists update monthly, so it will be interesting to follow it to see how it goes.
Check out the four main top lists below:
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I took the test, and it turns out I am a "Kinky Adventurer" which is about right, I guess LOL.
Being on another top list isn't going to change my life, it isn't going to change the way I write reviews and blog posts. It does, however, give me a nice warm feeling that someone out there likes my work.
Recognition is excellent, but it is the feedback I get from my readers and social media followers that drives me forward. Giving me the motivation to overcome my disabilities to produce content that others will find useful hopefully.
Thank you to everyone who reads my work and everyone to gets in touch, leaves feedback or cares, I am sending you a huge virtual hug. You make what I do worthwhile and you all Rock whether you are on a top list or not, everyone has a compelling voice, and we should all support and elevate each other.
Joanne's blog has made it onto the @thesexualalpha Top Sex Toy Blog List. Click to Tweet