Shaven Haven Or Bushy Garden - The Pussy Shaving Enigma
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Shaven Haven Or Bushy Garden - The Pussy Shaving Enigma

"To shave or not to shave, that is the question" - Shakespeare (I think)

I am writing this article from a vulva owners perspective. Whilst it is also applicable to penis owners the focus will be on the dilemma faced by lots of us.

Should I shave or should I let my pubes grow to a ripe old age and length? To create a bushy garden that David Bellamy would be quite at home in.

Let's face it we're sometimes under a lot of pressure to keep our vulvas neat and tidy if not completely shaven.

If you look at 1970s porn you will see it full of glorious lady gardens, a veritable bushy paradise of foofness. Yes that's a made-up word, derived from my nickname for my own vulva - my Foof.

Conversely if you look at modern porn, even amateur stuff you will often be greeted either by bald vulvas or creative trims. Cuts such as the Brazillian, the landing strip and the bikini line are popular but why is that?

I have heard some arguments for keeping your pubes short or shaving completely.

Cleanliness is often cited as one of the drivers for shaving a vulva. In a nutshell, I say bollocks to that. You can have a perfectly clean vulva even if you have a bushy quim.

I believe the biggest driver for shaving or trimming your pubic hair is purely down to fashion and the media.

We're bombarded with media ads and publications that chastise us for being anything but ideal. Photos are airbrushed and doctored in the media all the time.

When was the last time that you saw a photo of a pubic hair peeking out from under a pair of underwear? Why have we suddenly decided as a society that pubes are not normal?

I love my bush.

Don't get me wrong, I have shaved in the past. I have been totally shaved and also trimmed at various times in my life.

But it's just another onerous task that I had to do, basically for others - shaving my legs, applying make-up etc. I don't do it for myself I do it because it's expected of me in order for me to fit into the norm.

Well, sod that, if you don't like my pubes then jog on. If I decide to shave, I will have done so for my own reasons and not because of society or trends.

I have a beautiful pussy and it looks good shaved or in all its natural glory.

Love your own pussy and don't get hung up on shaving it unless you want to of course.

I salute all vulva owners who shave their own because THEY want to and I also salute those who choose not to as well.

Never feel pressurised into having to shave or trim your pubes, they are yours and you should never allow anyone to push you around.

Give you pussy some loving and not necessarily some grooming the next time that you are in the bath.


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