Loving Joy Demi Silicone Butt Plug Review
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Loving Joy Demi Silicone Butt Plug Review

This baby blue butt plug looks so cute

I was delighted when I was sent this butt plug to review by the lovely people over at it means two things. Firstly I get a great excuse for some more booty play and secondly as they also included a lube that I have never tried before I would really be able to enjoy myself reviewing both items. I will be reviewing the lube seperately and so this review will concentrate on this lovely little silicone butt plug.

The biggest question that I always ask myself when reviewing a butt plug is - does it have an adequate base?


I love silicone butt plugs and it was a lot of fun getting to know this one. So, is it one to recommend for your butt or is it going to be something fit only for the bin? Or in other words will my butt be filled by it again after I have finished my review of it or will it be one never to see the light of day again? Read on to find out.

I love the colouration of this butt plugOne of the things that I really like about butt plugs is that they are the ultimate gender neutral sex toy. No matter what your sex, what you identify as or whatever, we all have a butt - excpet the leader of North Korea apparantly and so this is a sex toy that can be used by everyone and I love that fact.

First though a quick note on packaging and as you would expect everything that I have received from has been received under very plain packaging which means that the nosey neighbours won't know your kinky secret.

The retail packaging for the Loving Joy Demi Silicone Butt Plug is a clamshell blister pack and it is held securely inside this packaging with a cardboard information sleeve behind it. This sleeve carries product branding on the fornt and usage and care instructions on the reverse plus the usual disclaimers.

The thing that I liked most about this butt plug is the colour, it's a stunning baby blue and it really is a refreshing change from the usual black or red plugs that you so often see. I personally find it a very likeable colour and once I had removed the plug from its packaging I marvelled at both the colour and the texture of this plug.

This butt plug is made out of silicone and that makes it 100% body safe and hypo-alergenic. Click to Tweet

This is a gently tapered butt plugThis butt plug is made out of silicone and that makes it 100% body safe and it is also latex and phthalate free making it hypo-alergenic. Silicone is my favourite sex toy material as it's also non-porous which makes it easy to clean and sterilise and for something that you are going to shove up your butt that is very important indeed.

The blend used in this sex toy is a nice one, it's firm but it still has a little squish to it - is that a real word? It can be a bit of a dust magnet though but that is common with virtually every silicone sex toy I have ever tested. I recommend rinsing it off before using it anyway so it isn't an issue for me.

The biggest question that I always ask myself when reviewing a butt plug is - does it have an adequate base? This is very, very important as unlike a vagina, the anus actually draws inwards when you orgasm so never insert anything without a flared base into your butt or you could be facing an embarrasing trip to A&E to have it removed. This butt plug I am happy to report has a nice wide base that will prevent any mishaps. It's not an overly thick base though and so it's very comfortable to wear this plug for extended periods of time either standing, walking or even sitting.

This butt plug has a decent base that is comfortable to wearThe butt plug has a very rounded tip which is blunter than other plugs I have used and I assumed that this would make it more difficult to insert but that isn't the case at all. I found it easy to insert and as it's a modest 1"/2.5cm in idameter and only 4"/10cm long it's a comfortable butt plug for day wear or extended periods of time not just for play sessions. You can't see the base when wearing it under clothes so you can wear it out and about, that makes the weekly shop a much more interesting task.

Some butt plugs have a pronounced pop as they slip inside you past the widest point but that's fairly mute with this one as it has a very gentle taper, it still feels very nice though as you insert it and also when you remove it.

This is a great butt plug and it is one I will use againAs it's a relatively thin butt plug it would be suitable for someone new to anal play or for someone who wants a plug that they can wear for extended periods of time without it becoming sore.

When using any sort of anal sex toy always use lots of lube and as this is a silicone toy don't use a silicone based lubricant as it can affect the surface texture, if you want to use a hybrid lube then test it on a small area of the base first. I did that with the Astroglide hybrid lube that I am reviewing at the moment and had no problems with it.

Cleaning is very simple, just use warm soapy water and then an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner to sterilise it or you can leave it overnight in a 10% bleach solution. Make sure that it is dry before you store it away ready for use again.

This is a plug that I will use again and so I can heartily recommend it if you are looking for a small/intermediate butt plug.

Remember - When using any sort of anal sex toy always use lots of lube. Click to Tweet

Key Features

My butt definitely recommends this butt plug to youKey features:

  • 100% Body safe silicone
  • Small size makes it ideal for anyone new to anal fun
  • Wide and comfortable base
  • It's baby blue, who couldn't love that colour?

Final Thoughts

I like this butt plug, it's made out of my favourite body safe material and it's a beautiful baby blue colour that really suits it. I can highly recommend it for anyone looking for a small butt plug for either anal training or just for some long term plugging fun. I have used it numerous times and a couple of times overnight and have had no trouble after removing it even after extended periods of wearing it. Oh and it was fun typing up this review with it securely fitted in place.

I was sent the Loving Joy Demi Silicone Butt Plug by Gary at and I would like to thank him for giving me the opportunity to review it for them.

Joanne's rating

8.6Overall8Design8Features9Functionality9Ease of use9Price

Where Can I Get One From?

Grab one of these great little butt plugs from for just £12.99

AdultShopIt have lots of butt plugs to choose from and even have a seperate small butt plug category so there will be something there for everyone.

Check them out and don’t forget to tell them that Joanne says "Hi".


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